In life I get it, it's almost impossible not to notice the things others have that you don't. I get that we wish and desire for things that we see, whether it's relationships, possessions, qualities, talents, or anything in between. In all of that wishing and hoping and admiring and envying we forget to value and admire all of the same things that people see and think when they see and think of us. Your Memory may not be the greatest but nobody can organize and manage things